Rule One
Make It Personal
The best way to start is a personal piece that means something to you. For instance, the Gemini isn’t my favorite symbol, but I always wear my daughters astrological signs, or my brother’s sign, which is a leo. I love things that have a connection so that when you look down, they make you happy or take you back to a specific moment in time or make you think of someone special. I keep the zodiac signs for my whole family, instead of just my own.
Rule Two
There’s Only One Focal Point
When you have too many bold pieces, you aren’t sure what to look at. If you really want to do more, put them in the same zone. One thing I’m really into right now is multiple cocktail rings, which goes back to my grandma’s signature style. Keeping it in the same area works well. If you’re going to do a big earring, don’t also do a big necklace. Those are things I find most distracting on the red carpet.
Rule Three
Remember Jewelry Is Transformative
Jewelry has been there since the beginning of man. Everywhere around the world it means something. Just look at the ancient exhibits at the MET. Because things are so easily mass produced, we’ve forgotten that. Buy pieces that mean something to you and wear them. They can transform your outfit, your mood, your entire outlook.
Rule Four
Take Risks
Some things that are bold for one person, might be no big deal to another. For a stylist, it’s about knowing the person. Knowing what the client likes and doesn’t like. Sometimes it’s the weirdest nuance that influences what they gravitate towards. Focus on features you want to accentuate, or even avoid.
Rule Five
Mix High and Low
I like to wear my favorite things. Whether it was $100 or $5000 doesn’t matter to me I just put on what makes me happy. I think you can mix high and low jewelry, and the same goes with clothing. You can wear an evening gown with costume jewelry, and it won’t look out of place. It’s about setting a tone for what your look is about. One piece isn’t too cheap or expensive to wear with the next. Just wear your favorite things!
Rule 6
There Are No Rules
Do what makes you feel good. If you want to wear a big necklace and big earrings, and it makes you feel good, you should go for it. For me, that wouldn’t make me feel good, because I would be distracted. I know sometimes I might look crazy looking at all my rings, and I’ll go put another one on for balance. The other day I left the house wearing eight necklaces because I felt like it and that’s what it’s all about.